He's not your last chance.
Many women stay in bad relationships, falsely believing he's their last chance. Whether we think we're too old, too long-gone, too messed up or have put too much time into a relationship—it's commonplace to stay with a guy because we think it's either him or being alone for the next 30 years. I know the statistics, I know how hard it is to find a good man—but don't buy into the lie that a mediocre relationship is your last chance.
Manipulation will sour your relationship quickly.
We cry or tell half-truths to make the situation come out in our favor. Winning an argument or getting your way does nothing to better a relationship—and may in fact worsen it. Be forthright, and learn to navigate conflict through healthy communication and compromise.
Nagging won't solve anything
I bet anyone to show me a healthy relationship where the woman always nag or complain about so many things in that relationship; you wouldn't see any. Women believe if they keep on complaining about things then the man would change but that isn't true. The more you complain the more cracks you create in that relationship. Complaining won't solve anything, it would only worsen things. You might be right about what you are complaining about but there are better ways to go about it; relationship is not a game of chess.
Relationship is a give and take thing
Most times, ladies lack this mentality in a relationship; they go into a relationship with the mentality that everything balls down to the man; but that's a wrong notion. A relationship would be worth it if the lady in her own way does some of the things that the man does. The simple truth is; you should treat your man just how you want to be treated. When you treat him like a king, you would definitely be his queen; except he's just another jackass.
Never enter a relationship for what you can gain
This is one mistake most ladies make, they enter a relationship for a reason, and that reason is for what they can gain. If you enter a relationship for things you would gain, you've already defeated the purpose of being in that relationship. Love should be the purpose of being in a relationship; other things should be mere side attractions. But when you turn the table around and make love just a side attraction, that relationship has no purpose and would definitely not last.
We cry or tell half-truths to make the situation come out in our favor. Winning an argument or getting your way does nothing to better a relationship—and may in fact worsen it. Be forthright, and learn to navigate conflict through healthy communication and compromise.
Nagging won't solve anything
I bet anyone to show me a healthy relationship where the woman always nag or complain about so many things in that relationship; you wouldn't see any. Women believe if they keep on complaining about things then the man would change but that isn't true. The more you complain the more cracks you create in that relationship. Complaining won't solve anything, it would only worsen things. You might be right about what you are complaining about but there are better ways to go about it; relationship is not a game of chess.
Relationship is a give and take thing
Most times, ladies lack this mentality in a relationship; they go into a relationship with the mentality that everything balls down to the man; but that's a wrong notion. A relationship would be worth it if the lady in her own way does some of the things that the man does. The simple truth is; you should treat your man just how you want to be treated. When you treat him like a king, you would definitely be his queen; except he's just another jackass.
Never enter a relationship for what you can gain
This is one mistake most ladies make, they enter a relationship for a reason, and that reason is for what they can gain. If you enter a relationship for things you would gain, you've already defeated the purpose of being in that relationship. Love should be the purpose of being in a relationship; other things should be mere side attractions. But when you turn the table around and make love just a side attraction, that relationship has no purpose and would definitely not last.
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"We are going to find Yakubu, perhaps we can get some milk from the masters' kitchen," Tanko said. He was the son of the strongest wrestler in Dogongari. His father was tall and hefty and threw any contester to the ground. Tanko's father was well respected for his strength and the man was a very gentle and humble man but Tanko was the opposite of his father. He was weak, troublesome and very mischievous. Had he not had a striking facial resemblance with his father, as well as his height, his paternity would have been in doubt. Bawa was the son of the village tobacco merchant. His father was short and fat and very tricky. He had a reputation for cheating people. He was also a money lender who demanded very high interest. Bawa was a replica of his father in every way, in appearance and character except that Bawa was more considerate. He could take pity on others itcr hoodwinking them. Garba did not like him much "Really?" Sule asked. "I hope it will be all right if I go with you." "You don't have to," Bawa said. "You know if he takes more than expected, the master would know he took his milk." "It's not bad if we shared whatever Yakubu gives us with our fellows," Tanko said. "Garba can even get from it," Sule said. Bawa made a face. "Look at you, Sule, you have......
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