"My first experience was full of...."- Biodun Okeowo

From:	Madubuko Jaybee

Sexy Yoruba actress, Biodun Okeowo known in the industry as Tolani Oshirin, in a new interview with Showtime Celebrity got talking about sex, her former marriage and future plans.

What was your first sex experience?

My first experience was full of fear, uncertainty, pain and alas! I loved it at the end.

What do you have to say about pre-marital sex among our youths?

It is saddening that pre-marital sex has taken over our time. In the past, most of our men would disassociate themselves with girls who have been deflowered outside wedlock. Then a woman's virginity was her pride but time has changed and human beings have changed. I am not happy about it. Maybe we should blame civilisation or modernisation for this. I pray for God's intervention in this era.

Did you marry as a virgin?

Yes, I did and I can boldly say that.

Which parts of your body do you think are your selling points?

… Well, I will say my hips and eyeballs. God has blessed me with what African men really like. Even the modern day African man who pretends to like a skinny woman, after getting down with her, he would marry a woman who has ample flesh in the right proportions.

How have you been coping, as a single mother with two kids?

It's one question I don't like going deep into for personal reasons. I will only say God has been faithful. I'm fine and cool as you can see. I am a happy woman in all ramifications and the envy of other ladies.

Any plan of getting married?

I'm yet to get one and would not like to say much about that.

What lessons did you learn from your previous marriage?

My broken marriage was a place of learning to me. It taught me to be a better person and has opened a hidden part of me. Then I was younger but I have learnt that what will be will be, no matter what.

Would you say he was at fault?

Fault, who am I to apportion blames or Judge? God knows best. I thank God we are both doing well in our respective homes.

Any plans of marrying again?

Presently, I'll like to remain mute on my marital status but the glaring truth is that I'm not single.

What do you mean by saying you are not single?

It simply means I have a man in my life. But what I am not ready to disclose are details about him. I am not single because I am with a man. Please don't ask me any further question on this. I am a very happy woman in love with a man in my life.

At this stage in your life, would you consider being a second wife?

I won't break someone else's home because I don't want mine to be broken as well. But then man proposes and God disposes. No one can decide for God. We can only pray fervently for our wishes. But one thing I don't joke with is my happiness.