I Slépt With My Driver Just To Have Children For My Husband

Story of my life: I am not  loose .No i am no! Just a lady who loves her man a whole lot and didn't want to lose him. I did what I had to do to save my marriage  to him  though I  often feel guilty I slept with my  car driver so  I could give my dear husband one baby, instead, God gave me  a set of twins, one  boy and one girl.

I was married to Philip no less than 8 years with no fruit of the womb. I never got pregnant for even a day. His mum  became so impatient and  started breathing down my neck She moved with us and  made my life a living hell! She even stopped eating food I cooked. She would say

"Monica, if you had children, you are supposed to be feeding them with all these food so that they would grow healthy and strong. I am getting old so I don't need all these nonsense you call food. Take them away and give me grandchildren," she would scream.

That is when i took  a bold step – I seduced and slept with our car  driver...

When the twins were finally born, the girl got sick for a while. That was when we tested and Genotypes. That was how my husband found out they were not his Kids. Yet to my surprise, he said nothing!

Three months later, he held me closely and said:

"Monica, don't be scared. I don't want to know who the father of the twins is. I know whatever you did, you did to save our marriage and I am very proud of you. I promise to always love you and my babies. I promise this will be a secret between us. I love you sweetheart. I know we will have our own children someday." I wept as he wiped my tears with his hands.

I know what I did was wrong but at least my mother-in-law is extremely happy with me, that is all that matters. Although, everyone is happy but I feel guilty that I selfishly used an innocent man to achieve my aim. But before anybody judge me; just put yourself in my shoes and think for a moment what you will do? -Laide

hmmm.... See Pastor Arrested For Raping 32 Year Old Woman During

From:	Ladun Liadi

A 37 year old C & S Pastor has been arrested by the Ogun State Police Command for raping a 32 year old woman within the church premises.

According to the victim, the C & S Pastor was in a prayer session with her when he asked her to hold on to some candle stick before forcefully pulling off her clothes and eventually had carnal knowledge of her.

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The victim and her relations later reported the matter to the police and the pastor was arrested.

Confirming the incident, Police Spokesman, Muyiwa Adejobi said the matter will soon be charged to court.

"The matter is currently at the Anti Human Trafficking and Child Labour Unit of the Department of Criminal Investigation, Abeokuta and medical reports so far received on the matter confirmed that the pastor actually committed the offence and he has confessed to the crime. The matter will soon be charged to court," he said.

‘Jilted’ Lover Walks In Front Of Train Driven By GF Who Left Him 3 Weeks Ago

From:	Ladun Liadi

A 36 year old man, Gary Wells has died after he took a bold step by walking in front of a moving train driven by his ex-girlfriend, MacDonald, 29 to show he couldn't live without her.

Miss MacDonald was powerless to prevent a collision after he stepped on to the track in front of her on one of Britain's most scenic rail routes. Mr Wells died instantly as he was hit by the train.

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The couple dated for 8years before MacDonald walked out of the relationship 3 weeks ago.

3 Fresh Ebola Cases Discovered In Kaduna, Lagos

From:	<Kiite>

Fresh facts emerged yesterday that three new suspected cases of the deadly ebola virus disease have been discovered in Kaduna and Lagos states.

Four more patients who had been undergoing treatment for the disease at the Lagos treatment centre, were discharged after they had been certified free of the disease.

Briefing journalists at the Infectious Disease Hospital located in Yaba area of Lagos, the Lagos State commissioner for health, Dr Jide Idris, said   they have 12 confirmed cases which included the index and all the other cases that had tested positive.

The commissioner said, "As at yesterday, we have three new suspected cases. And one of them is a blood sample from Kaduna State while the two others are from Lagos, and they are primary contact. One reason for this was that they do not have the laboratory to test for the virus.

"What we have now is that there are four people dead, including the index (Mr Patrick Sawyer). We have eight in the isolation ward before the Saturday when we released the doctor. And this doctor was released after testing negative and going through the World Health Organization and Centre for Disease Control procedures for discharge."

Idris added, "We have four more patients that are ready for discharge, and they have gone

through the same protocol — the protocol is that before we release anyone or certified him or her negative, he or she has to be symptoms-free for over three days. Also, we had to test their blood and the result proved negative of the virus.

"They will be released today (yesterday) after they have completed their counselling exercise being conducted by our psychosocial team. But they will come periodically for checkups, though they are okay."

He revealed that the other three patients were still being monitored at the isolation centre, saying once they got better they would be released.

On the suspected nurse that ran to Enugu State, Idris said, "The lady who ran to Enugu is still under isolation and she has tested positive to the virus."

Asked the treatment given to the patients, he said, "There is no specific treatment for Ebola virus disease, EVD. We treat the patients based on the presentation. For instance, if the patients show symptoms of diarrhoea, he or she has to be treated with electrolyte and others. If the person shows signs of pains, he will be given drugs on pains. We have enough drugs to take care of them.

"If they require intensive care, we will do that. This is part of the equipment that has been brought in. They will be provided with such."

He explained that medical personnel had increased, saying: "At the moment, we have gotten more medical personnel to care for the patients. We have eight doctors and nine nurses and some health workers who have gone through the training.

"We have also been joined by infectious disease experts from Lagos State University Teaching Hospital (LASUTH). All these people have gone through the training, though the number is not enough; we need more."

The Inspirational Story Of WhatsApp Founder, Jan Koum

From:	<Kiite>

Jan Koum, a Ukranian, went to the US at the age of 16 due to the hostile treatment Jews were receiving in the country. When they arrived in the US, Jan and his mother lived on food stamps. He met Brian Acton in 1997 at Yahoo, where they were both working and they became friends. By 2007, the two of them men had become disillusioned and they left Yahoo to seek new challenges.

Koum founded WhatsApp in 2009 after he had been turned down by Facebook and was joined by Acton who had also been turned down by Twitter and Facebook. They created a project that allowed them to concentrate on creating an easy-to-use messaging product and the approach paid off. WhatsApp amassed 450 million monthly users. Their idea was that smartphone users should be able to easily message each other without incurring fees from phone carriers. They refused to advertise their product and only relied on the recommendations of users of the product. In 2014, Facebook decided to purchase WhatsApp for a whooping 19 billion dollars!

Lessons from Jan Koum's (and Brian Acton's) story:

Your background is not an excuse for failure in life: Jan Koum did menial jobs like cleaning and mopping at a grocery store while his mother took up a babysitting job. At a point in his life, he and his mother depended on allowances from the government. (Jan signed the agreement with Facebook on the door of the social services office where he and his mother used to stand in line to collect food stamps.)

Adversity should make you stronger and resilient not break you: Jan learnt computer networking all by himself with the help of manuals from a used book store. He couldn't afford to pay for lessons but he has become a billionaire today.

You can profit from your experience: Jan's experience in communist Ukraine where phone lines were bugged by secret police greatly influenced his decision to create WhatsApp. He wanted a service that guaranteed messaging privacy. "I grew up in a country where I remember my parents not being able to have a conversation on the phone," he explained. "The walls had ears and you couldn't speak freely."

If you find your job unexciting, get out: Jan and Brian became disillusioned with life at Yahoo and they quit.

Don't allow disappointment to overwhelm you: Jan and Brian were turned down turned down for employment by Facebook. Brian was also rejected by Twitter and he took it on the chin. Read this: "Got denied by Twitter HQ. That's ok. Would have been a long commute." and this "Facebook turned me down. It was a great opportunity to connect with some fantastic people. Looking forward to life's next adventure."

Be passion-driven not money-driven: Jan wanted to create a product that would meet a need, and when this product filled the need, money came. Today he is a billionaire. Money was not his primary motivation. He says he just wanted to build a great product. "I started WhatsApp, to build a product. I do not want to create a company around it, the goal was not to earn. We wanted to spend our time building a service people wanted to use because it worked and saved them money and made their lives better in a small way." He tweeted in 2012 that he was not an entrepreneur: "Next person to call me an entrepreneur is getting punched in the face by my bodyguard, seriously."

A good product will advertise itself: WhatsApp has a 'no ads' policy. The company refuses to be involved in promotions, marketing and advertising and it has over 450 million active users, reaching the number faster than any other company in history. This is what WhatsApp says about advertising, "No one wakes up excited to see more advertising, no one goes to sleep thinking about the ads they'll see tomorrow. We know people go to sleep excited about who they chatted with that day (and disappointed about who they didn't). We want WhatsApp to be the product that keeps you awake… and that you reach for in the morning. No one jumps up from a nap and runs to see an advertisement."

Jan's is an inspirational story that yet again proves that as long as you refuse to give up but continue to look for a way out, you will eventually have your big break.

hmmm! Scantily Dressed Nicki Minaj Performs Lap Dance For Drake (PHOTOS)

By Kiite |

Drake is one lucky man!

Nicki Minaj's new music video 'Anaconda' featuring Drake has certainly sparked up an internet storm.

In the video, Minaj who is scantily dressed in a sexy black fishnet tight and a tiny bikini is giving Drake a lap dance and from the look on his face one would see he's enjoying every bit of it.

Drake's relationship with the 31-year-old rapper has always been a subject of constant media scrutiny.

Although the two are yet to confirm reports of their romance, lots of people think their relationship is more than friendship as they claim.

Some even argued that after his break-up with Rihanna, the rapper started dating the Anaconda rapper.

This is not the first time Drake and Nicki Minaj have made to the press for a romantic link-up.

In 2010 Drake released a song called "Miss Me" and gushed about his love for Minaj.

In the song he rapped: "I love Nicki Minaj/ I told her I'd admit it/ I hope one day we get married just to say we f-ing did it/ And girl, I'm f-ing serious/ I'm with it if you with it/ 'Cause your verses turn me on and your pants are mighty fitted."

Lady Who Just Quit A 10 Year Old Relationship Wants To Know If Her New Man Is Serious About Her

Hi Ladun,

How are you doing? I am an avid reader of your blog, great job! I am a bit confused, dunno if my fellow LLB readers can help?

I came out of a long relationship (my first) early this year (10 years) cos it was leading nowhere. Have been dating my new man for about 6 months now.

I just clocked 31; time is no longer on my side because I have some medical issues which necessitate me getting pregnant in the next 1 year else I may have issues getting pregnant (never been pregnant before BTW).

My question is: How do I know if my man is serious about me etc. Its been 6 months plus, but I have not met any of his family members. Is that the norm nowadays?

Should I be worried? Should I start giving other men a chance (dates etc). I am a one-man woman so I wouldn't want to double/triple date.

Help!!! I need advice...(P.S: no need to abuse me on the 10 year relationship, I know now that that was stupid).